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Goddess Unleashed Reclaiming Love

You were never too sensitive.
Too much.
Too quiet.
Too loud.
Too anything.

You were always enough!

But If you grew up with emotionally immature parents, it might be hard to believe that you can find love in yourself.

Maybe instead of being celebrated for who you are, you were picked apart for not living up to expectations.

Or perhaps the things you did well often went unnoticed, while the moments you fell short were put under a microscope.

When you have experiences like these, they can leave you doubting your worth and make it feel almost impossible to find love in yourself.

I Am Naturally Worthy was created to support adult children of emotionally immature parents who’ve carried the painful belief that they’re not good enough.

Here, you’ll learn how to find love in yourself and embrace what’s always been true…

You’re already enough.

I feel so seen when I read your posts. You really get what it's like to have a parent who can't show up for you the way you need them to. I blamed myself for so long. Your words helped me see that it was never me and for that I'm forever grateful. Keep doing what you're doing.

Celeste

Hello! I'm Yanique

I'm a daughter of emotionally immature parents and a licensed psychotherapist. I know firsthand how hard it can be to feel like you're not enough.

I believe that when you’ve been taught that you have to earn your worth, the last thing you need is someone telling you to “just love yourself.”  

That’s why this space is built on compassion, not toxic positivity.

And yet, if you want to find love in yourself and embrace your worth, the time to do so is now.

I believe that with a few gentle shifts in how you relate to yourself, you can learn to love who you are and accept that you’re already enough—without working overtime to ‘fix’ yourself.

Yanique thank you for putting in the time and sharing your work with us. I've read many books and had a ton of therapy that didn't get to the heart of things. I've gotten so much clarity from reading your work.

Grace

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Experience & Credentials

  • Licensed Clinical Social Worker (LCSW)
  • Master of Social Work from University at Albany
  • Master of Arts Criminal Justice University at Albany
  • Expert on TV One’s Fatal Attraction 
  • Owner of Yanique Chambers’ Counseling
 

Our parents can really put us through it! Everybody is always telling me to move on and to let the past be the past. It's nice to hear for once that what I went through was real and not just me overreacting.

Keisha

Imagine this for a minute...

  • You’re trusting yourself and feel confident making choices that reflect the life you really want.

  • Your relationships feel lighter and more honest because you’re setting boundaries and speaking your truth.

  • You’re accepting who you are and giving yourself the time, care, and gentleness you deserve.

  • You’re moving through the world knowing deep down that you belong.

  • You’re more present and engaged with life around you.
  • You’re making room for laughter and fun.

Does this version of life resonate with you?

The good news is,  it’s not out of reach. Small, supported steps can help you get there.

When You Believe You're Not Enough

For years, I looked like I had it all together. I became a wife and mom, found a career I was passionate about, and even got a couple of cats.
 
But behind the scenes? I was still trying to outrun the feeling that I wasn’t good enough. 
 
I was stuck in this cycle of overachieving, people-pleasing, and second-guessing myself. I couldn’t understand why I still felt so… unworthy.
 
Then my mom passed away.
 
While going through her things, I found her journals.
 
After a lifetime of believing she didn’t want me, I was desperate to find proof in her words that I was wrong.
 
But I wasn’t prepared for what I found.
 
Page after page, I saw the same patterns I had been living. The same shame. The same self-doubt. The same belief that she wasn’t enough. Her words could’ve easily been mine. 
 
My heart broke for my mother.
 
In that moment, I realized that it wasn’t that she didn’t love me, it was that she didn’t love herself.
 
She couldn’t give me what she didn’t have.
 
I didn’t want to pass this legacy on to my own daughter. I couldn’t let this be her story too.
 
It shouldn’t be anyone’s story.
So I started doing the work—real, deep, messy healing work.
 
I stopped blaming myself and started questioning the beliefs running my life.
 
I looked honestly at my childhood and made space to understand the old hurts I was still carrying.
 
I learned to release shame, set boundaries that once felt impossible, and finally started treating myself with the compassion I’d always given to others.
 
That’s what led me here.
 
I Am Naturally Worthy is a space for adult children of emotionally immature parents, who are done feeling like they’re not enough.
 
It’s for those of us who were raised to shrink ourselves but are now ready to reclaim our voice, our softness, our strength.
 
  • You don’t have to fix yourself.
  • You don’t have to earn your worth.
  • You’re already enough, exactly as you are.
 
Let’s unlearn the lies, rewrite the story, and help the next generation grow up knowing their worth is non-negotiable.
 
 

"Wow! I was really struggling for a long time and never believed things would get better. Sometimes you think you're the only one going through things and it can feel so lonely. I'm glad I found your site because I don't feel so alone anymore.

Lisa

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